I strongly believe that it does not have to be this way.
If more thought were given to proper considerations of others, the injuries would be significantly reduced. There is an all-encompassing Biblical principle that must be applied in relationships. ‘Do to others as you would have them do to you.’ Perhaps you recognize this as the Golden Rule.
IF you find that something in the relationship is not quite right, or even annoying, discuss it with the other person.
Perhaps you can tell that they are really embracing the relationship, but you are not as far along as they are.
If your mind works like mine, you probably change your mind every few days.