Sometimes lifestyles will just not be a fit — I went on a few dates with a stand-up comic who had huge stretches of time where he would be doing nothing, and then he’d be on the road for several weeks at a time.He was fairly successful — even had a minor tv show on a channel I’d never heard of — but our careers left us with such different lifestyles that I couldn’t see it working out in the long term with him. Some people like to talk to their significant other frequently on the phone.(I haaaate the phone, and I certainly never had time for long lovey-dovey talks when I was at the firm.) Some people like to be taken to really nice restaurants or the “hot” new place, which your date may or may not be able to afford (either for you or for him).
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The second are will be for actual dating services and be divided accordingly.
This is an ongoing project that I plan to add to regularly.
I keep reading that the primary thing couples fight about is money, so look at this seriously. A fun game that I only played with my husband after we were married was the “If I made $__, my lifestyle would be ____” game. If anything makes either of your eyebrows fly up, talk about it.
Again, there is no right or wrong answer, only “like me” or “not like me.” Do you both live within your means? I’m sure readers have tips for how they’ve managed relationships where the other person had less money or more time.
If you're interested in someone who's divorced, you can easily pursue a happy relationship with this person as long as you keep some things in mind. A recently divorced person may be somewhat cautious. Work on feeling secure in yourself throughout the relationship.