Insecurity and infidelity are juicier issues, for sure, but the most common reason older women’s relationships with younger men end is more prosaic. “That’s usually what it comes down to.” The most common disagreements arise when the younger man wants a child, and the older woman is done having children, can no longer do so or is simply committed to her child-free lifestyle.Yet women shouldn’t assume that all younger men will eventually want children. Despite the prevalence of the cougar trend, older women shouldn’t expect society to treat their relationships with younger men as “normal.” They will likely field their share of raised eyebrows from friends and family members.At a mere 10 years younger, perhaps Ritchie was just too old for her.
Some men date younger woman to prove to themselves they haven't lost his touch.2.
He Wants Kids I've encountered many men over 40 who admit to wanting more kids — regardless of the fact that they might've already raised a few.
Then there was Ashton Kutcher who stepped out with a 23-year-old, leading Demi Moore into a whippet-induced 911 scandal. “In the hundreds of cases I've researched, the couples I know and with whom I've worked, there is love and fidelity,” she says.
Besides, these younger men usually have little reason to stray.
Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.