You might be better off looking on something like Adult Friend Finder.
You’ll quickly see that on most profiles women state that they are seeking a life partner, soul mate, “good man”, as opposed to a one-night stand.
Don’t give out your home phone number or address until you have met the person, or at least Skyped and has a face-to-face conversation.
Like any other single woman, many bar girls – both those having sex for money and those solely working in the entertainment industry as a dancer or hostess – are looking for a partner.
Start off on the right foot and seek a woman that shares your interests, values and intentions.