When I say address it, I don’t necessarily mean talking it out.
Sometimes that’s the best way to go and I’ll share my thoughts on that in a moment, but sometimes half the issue is how you feel about it and think about it.
Guys, lovable as we can be, usually like to use the phone to make a plan and that’s that.
We don’t like chit-chat if it’s not towards a purpose, it’s just not how we’re wired.
Some things to consider: Personally, in a relationship, if someone doesn’t do what I expect them to do, I usually forgive them… I would say it should be as simple as, “OK, you’re doing this and it makes me feel this way (whatever it is you feel) and it makes me think this…