Average-looking women, mind you—"moderately attractive," even "slightly unattractive"—in casual clothes. It was important that the young man remain coherent. Extrapolating the finding to the real world means that on any given first date, the man would sooner sleep with the hostess than dine with his companion. Pack up the lab equipment, please, shut off the lights, and move on to more important behavioral studies. And our motives for sex have diversified (as have women's)—a reality Hatfield now calls "one of our planet's most important new developments." We want sex, but sometimes we want it to enhance the emotional relationship.
Seriously it’s so not worth trying to prove him wrong. So a little reverse psychology can go a long way with him.
Where the initial stages of the relationship can be fraught with challenges and having to take a back seat to his demands, the later stages of the relationship is much more well balanced as he puts his greatest needs and desires aside for your own, without uttering a single word in protest.
He’ll soak it in, seek it out and more or less expect to be treated as a king. In his mind, there is no one better looking or wittier. Tell him how gorgeous he is, how intelligent he is and if you have the courage, admit to needing his help with something that only he can do.
The study of male sexuality really should have ended in 1989. Nearly 70 percent of men agreed to visit the lady's apartment, and 75 percent accepted the sexual proposition. Another checked his mental calendar and said he couldn't today but what about tomorrow.
Despite that, his confidence bordering on arrogance does something for you and no one else will quite do. He has to be in charge, be the best, and dominate his own destiny.